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Your Bastienne Bible.Are you serious about exploring BDSM with me? This website will serve as your reference guide. Whether you're in the process of choosing a Domina or ready to book and eager to please, I've curated these pages for you. Everything you need to know about me is here. Let's get started - Enjoy!
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10 steps into submission:
Follow these steps sequentially, do not move to the next step until you have completed the current one.
- Consent to my booking process which entails sending a deposit and providing 24 hours notice.
- Read my About and Services pages thoroughly.
- Be sure to read my Hard Limits (Bottom of "About" page).
- If you're considering booking a duo or group scene, thoroughly review the hard limits and services of the other chosen provider(s).
- Peruse my Reviews, my Journal, Twitter & listen to my podcast to get a feel for my BDSM style & personality.
- Choose some shared kinks to explore.
- Choose a Location for your scene.
- Complete & submit my Booking form.
- Wait patiently for my response, generally between 1-4 hours.
- Enjoy the heart palpitations leading up to our meeting.
finding your dominatrix:
Finding a compatible Dominatrix is an important, exciting experience. There are many components to a successful scene and, hopefully, a successful, long lasting D/s dynamic. When you seek a Dominatrix, you are essentially seeking a particular feeling. First, you must articulate what feeling you're seeking, then you must find the woman you believe can elicit that experience. Most of this is psychological, the work you do before a scene is almost as important as the scene itself. The visual of your Domme, the words she presents, the setting you meet her in and the anticipation are almost comparable to the activities you choose to perform during the session. I have opened the door to clients who had worked themselves half into SubSpace prior to even meeting me. The excitement of an eager submissive, shaking from arousal and anticipation is a beautiful starting point for a scene and generally bodes well for the tone you're creating together in your particular D/s dynamic.
Established Toronto Dominatrix, Mistress Mindy, has distilled the process of finding a Domme into 3 steps. Read her article here.
If you think I might suit your submissive needs, my website pages are listed in approximate order of what is most relevant to a new client. Above I've listed my 10 step process for submission in order of importance. If at any point you conclude that I am not a compatible fit for you, please refer to my Partners page or Twitter feed. There you can get references to other professional Dommes in Toronto who may be more compatible with what you're looking for. Otherwise, enjoy perusing my site & thank you for visiting!
Established Toronto Dominatrix, Mistress Mindy, has distilled the process of finding a Domme into 3 steps. Read her article here.
If you think I might suit your submissive needs, my website pages are listed in approximate order of what is most relevant to a new client. Above I've listed my 10 step process for submission in order of importance. If at any point you conclude that I am not a compatible fit for you, please refer to my Partners page or Twitter feed. There you can get references to other professional Dommes in Toronto who may be more compatible with what you're looking for. Otherwise, enjoy perusing my site & thank you for visiting!
