I was raised in a delightfully eccentric and sexually open family comprised of almost entirely women. My mother was a leader in the military, among the first women to achieve her ranking. Feminism wasn't merely taught to me, I was incubated in it. My first crush was on a girl and in High School I came out as a lesbian. Then, a few years later as bisexual until, finally discovering my full pansexuality in my thirties. I've always been feminine but felt different, I couldn't quite put my finger on what set me apart. When I discovered FemDom, it was like coming home after a long, hard day. I finally found my base, the place where I could be myself. I discovered I was sexually dominant after years of mismatching with dominant, male partners and not being able to understand why. Not versed in BDSM at the time, it never occurred to me that I needed to seek sexually submissive partners. Since then, I've realized that I'm sexually submissive with women and sexually dominant with men. This has been an incredible psychological asset in my career as a professional dominant. I deeply understand and share my clients' desire to submit to women while I simultaneously crave the submission of men. I've incorporated my passion for FemDom into both my professional and personal life. It is truly my pleasure, revealing my authentic self to my clients in a bid to earn the same from them.
I am University and college educated. In my early 20's I dedicated myself to an interdisciplinary degree in University. This satisfied my need for variety and involved studying psychology, sociology, political science, philosophy and the arts. I was then accepted into a competitive visual arts college program where I concentrated on drawing, painting and performance. Ultimately, craving a more hands-on career, I became a carpenter in my late twenties. Now I occasionally create my own BDSM equipment, blending my building skills and creativity. Trips to the hardware store have taken on a delightful air of eroticism within the last few years. Since then I've continued my education, studying business and psychology. I'm also versed in yogic arts, meditation and Buddhism through my daily yoga and spiritual practices.
- Behaviour Modification / Training
- Filth Training
- Pain Training
- Boundary pushing
- Predominantly non verbal with some exceptions
- Sensory focused - music / sensation / body language
- Physically, emotionally & psychologically sadistic
- Humiliation & pain focused
- Safe, sane & consensual
- No intimate services, including handjobs, edging, footjobs & intimate body worship.
- No drug and/or alcohol use during session
- No minors
- No brats