Submission begins in solitude. It is either a nature you were born with or it is a choice you've made for this moment. Your motivation doesn't concern me, your execution does. Hey, if you're going to do something, do it well.
I'm sexually dominant. It's impossible to distill the nature from the nurture but ultimately it doesn't matter because this is who I am. Present yourself as my natural counterpoint. Present me with a mind that has soaked in the bliss of female dominance and I will step into my natural role with you. I've felt the shame of being different, not following what my gender role has prescribed. Then I found this place, here with you. So when you submit, you're telling me that I'm more than acceptable, the things that were bad are amazing and those feelings were all wrong. I'll do the same because the truth is, I'm enriched by submission, it's a beautiful, complementary energy to mine, it validates my nature and creates a story where blank pages once sat.
So please, don't tell me that you're usually dominant. Don't tell me that you're just doing this for fun. If you're going to do something, do it well. If you're going to submit, submit. It's my favourite state, don't dangle it in front of my face before hiding it behind your back. Hand it over, I'll do the same.
Another post about why subbies are the bestest by Lady Pim.
Lovely, little sadist living in Toronto, Ontario. This is my journal, where my brain gets to play.